Toddlers who won't chew
Mealtime with toddlers is always an unpredictable event. Will your little one get more spaghetti in her mouth, or in her hair? Only time will tell.
For adults, the whole eating thing seems pretty intuitive: put food in mouth, chew, and swallow. This is not the case for toddlers. This is because sitting for meals and feeding themselves is pretty new for toddlers your baby’s age, especially toddlers who started out being spoon-fed purees not too long ago.
Mealtime messes are totally normal for children at this age, and can even be kind of fun to watch. However, parents are often concerned as their toddlers begin eating more table food, since many young children eat too fast, shoveling food into their mouths without chewing before moving to the next bite.
Since choking can be very serious, parents need to supervise meals carefully to make sure toddlers are chewing their food, and to help if necessary. Here are some tips for helping your baby learn to chew her food.
- Model how it’s done: Sit down with your baby as she eats, and let her watch you eat from your own plate. Since she learns from watching you, be sure she is able to see how you chew your food, and even exaggerate the motion for her. This will help her understand how she is expected to eat.
- Monitor every bite: In these early years, it’s important to be sure your baby is never eating without supervision. Toddlers get in the habit of putting large quantities of food in their mouths, then move to the next bite without chewing or swallowing. They know the food is yummy, and want more, but don’t quite understand they are literally biting off more than they can chew. If this sounds like your baby, you may decide to offer bite-sized portions of food at a time for a little while as she learns, and let her know you will put the next bite on the plate once she chews and swallows.
- Start with easy foods: Of course, some foods are easier to chew than others. As your baby gets the hang of self-feeding, offer softer foods that require less chewing, like pasta and soft vegetables. Still, continue to model the chewing motion for her, and be sure she is chewing even the softest foods down before swallowing.
- Avoid choking hazards: Foods like popcorn, nuts, and hard candy are difficult to chew and swallow, and are considered choking hazards for young children, and even the best chewers aren’t ready for these foods until at least age 4.
- Be patient: It isn’t always easy to watch your baby refuse to chew food or chew less than she should, and it’s easy to start to worry about choking. The more she practices eating, though, and the more she watches your example, the better she’ll grow.
Like all areas of development, chewing is something she will master in time. Be consistent, and your baby will be a chewing champ in no time!
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