Convincing a reluctant toddler to love bathtime
At this age, your baby is becoming more perceptive, and also more independent. Even toddlers who used to love splashing in the tub can suddenly begin resisting bathtime, and while it is frustrating, it is also developmentally appropriate.
If your baby is suddenly making bathtime a battle, it’s important to determine the source of her resistance. It may be that she has developed a fear of the water, or of shampoo getting in her eyes while her hair is being rinsed. As she starts to connect the dots of your daily schedule, she may also begin to associate the sound of running water with the end of playtime, and the beginning of her bedtime routine. Because playing is more fun than sleeping, it’s natural for her to start to push back.
Whatever the reason for her reluctance, bathtime is still an important part of her day, so it’s up to you to banish those bathtime blues and make the bath seem more fun.
- Bring in the toys: Who says playtime has to stop once bathtime starts? Offering some exciting toys that are exclusive to the tub will help make this time more appealing. Bath toys these days don’t stop with simple rubber duckies, either. Foam letters, bath crayons and paints, and toys that move and paddle are game changers at tubby time.
- Make bath supplies appealing: Does your baby have a favorite color, or even a favorite character? If so, try to incorporate it into the bath. Look for washcloths with familiar faces, or sponges in a favorite shade of blue, to help get her excited.
- Let your toddler help: With careful supervision, you can start to let her help you set up the bath. Sometimes, toddlers are afraid the water will be too hot, or too deep. If you let your baby be your assistant in the bathtime prep, and even “test the waters” before climbing in, her will feel much more secure.
- Share responsibility: Toddlers love being independent, so letting your baby take over some of the washing duties with her. You’ll want to finish up for her, of course, but there’s no harm in letting her practice washing her body with a washcloth before you get into the real cleaning.
- Talk about what to expect: Instead of plunking her into the water right away, let her know it’s almost time to stop playing because she needs a bath. Similarly, instead of suddenly telling her it’s time to get out, tell your baby it’ll be time to towel off in one more minute. This will help her prepare for the transition.
Many toddlers go on bath strikes, and it’s usually nothing to worry about, and simple tweaks to your routine can generally solve the problem. If your baby seems irrationally afraid of the water, or becomes inconsolable at bathtime, consider talking to her pediatrician to see if they have any other thoughts about what may be causing the fear.
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