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2 years 6 months

your baby has spent so much time not being ready to play with other children, and getting almost all the social interaction she's needed from within your family, but at this point, she’s reaching the age where a little extra socialization, and especially social interaction with other toddlers, could be fun, interesting, and helpful for her.

If your baby goes to a nursery school or daycare with other children, she may be getting all the socializing she needs already, but if she is at home with a caregiver, or in individual care, this can be a great time to start making regular playdates a little bit more of a priority than before.

Still, most toddlers won’t be ready for what’s called “cooperative play” yet, which is what many adults mean when they talk about children playing together. In fact, many toddlers won’t start to get the hang of real cooperative play until they’re around four or even five. In the meantime, toddlers playing together may play near each other, copy each other, share materials, or even take turns with some toys.

If your baby ends up playing with older kids, on the other hand, the picture might look a little different. Toddlers generally love to imitate older children and can learn a lot by watching them. This means that, on play dates with older children, you may find your baby following her slightly-less-little friend’s lead. It also means that, if your baby has a slightly older friend, cousin, or sibling who she wants to be just like, you can encourage any skills or habits you’re hoping she will pick up - whether that’s using the potty, trying new foods, or using silverware - by giving her the chance to see her friend doing those things.

Of course, this can also go the other way - bigger kids can sometimes help toddlers learn certain words that many parents hope they won’t pick up. If your baby is friends with an older child, or even a child her own age with a big personality, you may find yourself needing to have the “That might be okay in so-and-so’s house, but it isn’t okay in ours” conversation.

Making friends for the first time is an adventure for your baby, but it’ll also be an adventure for you. Have fun!

Milestones

Takes turns in games: Whether it’s a toddler-friendly board game, a ball-pass game at nursery school, or waiting until the toddler who was there ahead of her on the slide takes a turn before sliding down, your baby is getting better at learning the rules of the game - both the literal game she’s playing and the rules of social interaction and being polite. She may slip up now and then, but once she starts to understand what’s expected of her enough to know that she should be taking turns, encouraging her to play nicely should start to go more smoothly.

Turns a door handle: It’s a different kind of “turning,” and she can do it based on a different kind of skill - her coordination - and a different kind of growth - her height. It’s going to take her places, too - literal places, unless you get really careful about locking doors and setting boundaries.


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