your baby’s earliest illnesses are scary and tiring even when they’re nothing more than the common cold or the sniffles, but her first health problem that requires medication is on a whole new level. Whether she’s young enough that the medication is the first thing she tastes besides breast milk or formula, or she has already started to discover solids, convincing your pre-verbal baby that taking her medicine is a good idea can be a challenge. Lucky for you, it’s a challenge parents have been facing for longer than effective medications have actually existed, and a few stand-out techniques have evolved over the years.
Medication for very young children like your baby usually comes in liquid form. This liquid can be flavored to make it more appealing to your baby. If the medicine is flavored to be something she will like, sometimes you can head off struggles over giving it to her early by offering her a taste from your finger so she can see that it’s good before you start bringing a whole spoon or needleless syringe to her lips. Some liquid medication has a bitter flavor that tastes better when it’s been chilled, so keeping it in the refrigerator before offering it can also help prevent trouble. Topical medications like eye drops can be shocking when applied cold, so warming them between your hands can help with those, too.
The right dosing is especially important in children as young as your baby - in children this young, dosing is determined by weight rather than age, and can change quickly. It’s important to keep dosing consistent, and household measuring spoons and cups can hold slightly different volumes, so it’s always a good idea to use the measuring device that comes with the medication. If you happen to lose the one that comes with this medication, you can usually get a replacement at the pharmacy.
A baby younger than 4 months probably still has a strong tongue-thrust reflex that can make getting her to swallow strange, fake-cherry flavored liquids tricky even if she wants to. Needleless plastic syringes are generally the easiest way to administer medication, instead of the little plastic measuring cups or measuring spoons that come with some children’s medication. Many parents choose to stick with the syringes even once their children are old enough to graduate from them, since the syringes offer the best way to get medicine past babies’ taste buds before they know what they’re dealing with.
Starting off on the right foot with medication is a good way to keep from getting started on early anti-medicine power struggles that can stretch through childhood. Start by not expecting the worst. Much like when your baby is learning to walk, and, by extension, learning to fall, she looks to you for how to react, and if you start out apologetic, nervous, or upset when you’re first offering her medication, she can pick up on it, and assume it’s something for her to be upset about.
As long as the doctor thinks it’s a good idea, and it’s not a medication that either needs to be taken on an already full stomach or to be taken without food, the best time to administer medication might be immediately before mealtime. This is because if she is hungry, she is more likely to take medication without arguing. Once they’ve administered medication, many parents find it helps to keep a record of the last time they’ve given it. When your baby is sick, life can feel even more chaotic than usual, and it can quite easy to forget exactly when her last dose was.
The next part of starting off on the right foot is not to start off with any tricks or force in administering medication. If you can work with your baby’s natural impulses to get her nice and medicated, it can help to keep her from forming negative associations with medication. Start by putting the syringe in her mouth near the middle of her tongue to see if she will suck out and drink the medicine on her own.
If she isn’t enthused about voluntarily taking her medicine, try threading the syringe back along the inside of her cheek to near the back of her mouth and to one side of her mouth. This position avoids both the front and middle of the tongue, where most of the taste buds are, and the throat and roof of the mouth, which can trigger the gag reflex. From here, slowly squirt the medication into your baby’s mouth, being careful not to go too fast, and to pause to give her time to swallow. Keeping her head tilted back through this process can help, since it means gravity is on your side in convincing your baby to swallow.
If your baby isn’t having any of your more basic medication-giving techniques, there are a few more sophisticated tactics you can try - most of them are a little stealthy, but since getting better is, ultimately, definitely in your baby’s best interests, she will forgive you eventually.
If your baby spits up when she ingested medicine half an hour to 45 minutes ago or longer, your baby has probably already absorbed most of the medicine, but it’s always a good idea to check in with your doctor about whether or not to give her another dose if your baby is having trouble keeping medication down. If she consistently can’t keep it down, the doctor may talk to you about the possibility of using suppositories.
No matter which technique is needed to convince a baby to take her medication, it's important to keep in mind that it's important to always take the full course of any antibiotic that's been prescribed, even if your little one stops showing symptoms and seems to be doing better.