Childcare with multiples

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Childcare with multiples

The early bird catches the worm. Well, that’s the short version. In real life, the process is a little more drawn out. First the early bird asks around to find a babysitter she likes. Once she finds one, she arranges for the sitter to start early the next morning. She waits for the sitter to arrive, and then - and only then! - can the early bird fly away and catch the worm. And then she comes back and pays the sitter.

You’re a human, so you don’t have to worry about any worm-catching. But you will have to worry about childcare. And with multiples, the process of finding and securing childcare for your children could be a little more complicated and expensive than it would be if you had a single baby.

Consider the cost

Childcare can be expensive, so reducing the cost of childcare can make a big difference in your budget. Here are some ways that you can maybe lower the price tag of a daycare facility or nanny.

Option 1: A nanny

Nannies are great, as they can give your little ones more personal attention. You can also form a close relationship with them, which ultimately helps everybody. If you’re considering a nanny, start by looking on specific nanny sites or reaching out to other parenting resources. Interview any potential nanny to make sure they have experience with multiples, and check their references.

Will a nanny be cheaper than other options? This depends on several factors, the main one being where you live, as more populated areas tend to have higher expenses for nannies. However, you’ll definitely make sure that you get someone who’s experienced and familiar with multiples, and this could cost a little bit more than a parent with a single baby.

Option 2: A childcare facility

Bringing your multiples to a childcare facility might be a great choice for you. It puts more adults in charge of the kids, they’ll be around other children, which can reinforce lessons in communication and sharing, to name a few.

If you’re deciding on a childcare facility, consider the price and how far away the facility is from your house, as well as the facility’s licensure, the staff-to-children ratio, and how the facility itself looks.

Option 3: Family daycare

Family daycare is kind of like a mix between a nanny and a child care facility. Family daycares are run by those who have children of their own, usually out of their own house. Normally the person in charge will serve snacks and meals and provide toys and games for the children to use. Family daycare often costs less than a childcare center, which makes it a good option for many parents.

If you’re considering bringing the multiples to a family daycare, make sure that the potential provider has experience with multiples, is fully licensed, and meets any other personal requirements that you have.

Should you keep the kids together?

As the children get older, you might start thinking about separating them in class or other activities, to help them develop a sense of independence, but you don’t have to worry about that right now, or even for a couple of years. What’s most important is that you find something that’s a good fit for you and your family, in terms of convenience, affordability, and comfort.

If you’re still undecided on the best option, consider reaching out to other parents of multiples to find out how they tackle the childcare subject. In time you’ll find the solution that works best for you and your family.

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